Tag: children
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UnParenting lessons from SURFing
We recently went to a place near Mangalore to learn surfing on waves – children and us few adults. Here are some interesting Unparenting reflections.
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How do Children learn?
Everything that the child encounters and experiences are something to learn about and learn from. Every experience, every interaction, every event can lead to multitudes of learning in every area of a child’s development. We neither force nor intend learning.
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UnLearning LANGUAGE
Language is something many thing starts with ABC. But, in reality, it starts from the day we are born or maybe before. It starts with LISTENING.In fact, it happens daily, as we engage in living fully.
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How do we LIMIT our children
The truth is WE (parents and teachers) are the ones who limit our children – how and why – let us figure out and then get out of their way.
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Child’s misbehaviour is just vomit
When a child vomits what do we focus on? When a child misbehaves what do we focus on? If we realize that misbehavior is just the vomit that we see, then we change our attention to the child, not the vomit.
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How we learn – Just Like That
Yes, a lot of learning happens just like that! How to enrich the just like that learning?
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I NO like Rewards or Punishments
Many of us use rewards or punishment to control children and their behavior. Sometimes we just use them because we think they are default or required. Its time to rethink!
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Your Child is not Beautiful
Do you think your child is beautiful? Does your child thinks that he or she needs to be beautiful? Can this be an issue – lets explore.
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Why do we want our child to be happy?
Let us explore two aspects of happiness, that somewhere we know, but still, we pass onto children the notion that will not really help them.
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Why are we Scared of Fears in Children
Somehow we do not want our child to be fearful of anything. We want to imminently weed out every fear – but don’t we in the whole process build a fear of fear!